I know we just finished looking at jeans, but I’m not talking about jean dresses!
Maybe somewhere in my convoluted brain that is how I got to this topic, but it’s just as likely that after a week on denim I wanted to frock up!
I live in country Victoria and over the past few years one of our neighbouring cities has been bringing in a number of amazing clothing exhibitions from the V & A in England. This year is Grace Kelly, last year was “White Wedding” and before that was a haute couture exhibit about dresses up to and including Dior and “the Look”. It was at this exhibit that I fell in love and became obsessed. Truly. Worse than any time before. Like stalker obsessed. I can’t get you out of my mind obsessed. Even, I can’t live without you obsessed!
Yes, it was that bad.
You see, I’ve always been tall, and I have never been skinny. Unfortunately, for a fair long time I was far from skinny and once I became an Intensive Care nurse, I could no longer the deny the health risk I was putting myself in. So I finally started losing weight. Diet and exercise, just like everyone tells you…eat less or at least eat better and move more. Over a two-year time frame I had lost about 25 kg (that’s about 55 lbs – don’t ask me stones because I can’t work that one out!). As I became thinner and fitter, fashion became fun again and I became even more interested in haute couture. As I already had a passion for history when the exhibit from the V&A came to the area I had to go.
Just to prove how wonderful the Fashion Mister is, he went with me!
Poor thing. He followed me around and stopped every time I had to sit and admire some amazing dress. He even followed as I doubled back to see some pieces again.
There was one designer that I had never heard of but upon seeing a few of his dresses I became extremely infatuated. He did ruching like I had never seen before. Gorgeous and amazing was all I could think and then this appeared before me.
I stopped dead in my tracks. I’m sure my pupils dilated and I know my heart raced. I thought I had been in love before but right then, I knew, before was all just practice for the massive rush of wanting I had for this gown!
I nearly cried. All I could think was how beautiful a woman would feel wearing that spectacular creation.
Eventually the Fashion Mister was able to pry me away from my new love and I took him to lunch to thank him for being so understanding. I think he may have known that the love affair was not yet over and on the 1 1/2 hour drive home he nodded politely as I rambled on and on about “The Dress”.
A couple of weeks later, we received an invitation to a fund-raising ball and I knew what I had to do. I Googled Jean Desses and eventually found the photo of the red dress I hadn’t gotten out of my mind. But could I be brave enough to wear red?! It was such a “look at me” colour and even though I had lost weight I didn’t know if I was ready for that.
I went to a really amazing seamstress here in our area, showed her the photo of the dress, talked about the colour and I showed her a piece of silk chiffon I had purchased in Hong Kong for my bridesmaids dresses.
Over the next few months, I went for several fittings and a couple of meetings to discuss fabric. Eventually, I had my version of the dress of my dreams. The colour was lavender, which I still love! The skirt was not as full because I honestly couldn’t afford the amount of fabric it would have taken to get that look!
This is me, the night of the ball. As usual, I look unhappy but wasn’t! I jsut don’t smile in photos because my little eyes scrunch up and become invisible! I did feel like Cinderella in the dress. So feminine and girlie but grown up and sophisticated. It fit like a glove. The sashes that cross over the front drape down the back, they do not provide any support but the corsetry had been done so well, no extra support was required.
Two more years have passed, and although I am still wildly in love with this dress, I have lost another 25 kgs (55 lbs) and it no longer fits. (Yes, that is about 50 kgs / 110 lbs – a whole person)
It and my wedding dress are the two items of clothing I have from my “Big” days that I can’t get rid of. I have wondered if I could take the dress back to the seamstress to be adjusted but fear it may be near impossible with all the boning and ruching that the dress has. So it hangs in the wardrobe of the guest bedroom.
Last week, the Fashion Sister From Another Mother (Lee-Anne), was over for dinner and I asked her to try it on because she is going to a VERY formal wedding and I wanted someone to love and wear my dress as much as I do. She loved it, it just didn’t quite fit. So the dress has gone back into the wardrobe.
I think if I were invited to an event that required a gown, I would have to bring her out and find out if she could be further modified.
Just because she is in the closet, doesn’t mean I love her any less.
After all, how can you part with the one you truly love?
BTW: Some of you may remember seeing J-Lo in this Desses gown. Or Renee Zellwegger in this vintage yellow Desses. Or more recently Kristin Davis in this hot-pink vintage Desses stunner.
So my little lovely, was certainly not the only amazing dress to have found love again in a new century.
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April 22nd, 2012 at 06:27
That’s a lovely shade of lilac you have on 🙂
April 22nd, 2012 at 06:38
Thank you!
I’ve got pale skin and dark hair so it works for me.:)
Cheers,
Laura
April 22nd, 2012 at 06:42
Such a great article. Absolutely love those dresses, and the lilac color looks simply stunning on you. XX
April 22nd, 2012 at 10:24
Thanks Dana!
It is a gorgeous colour and an amazing dress.
Cheers,
Laura
April 22nd, 2012 at 06:42
Amazing dress!
I’m with you on the smiling. Always seem to prefer the non-smiley shots of myself.
I’m sure the dress did the smiling for you that night!
April 22nd, 2012 at 10:27
I think I smiled a little during the night because I felt so great in the dress!
I didn’t even turn into a pumpkin at midnight, in fact I think we partied on for a few hours past.
Which is pretty impressive for oldies like us!
Even took home a half case of champagne that night as a prize.
Cheers,
Laura
April 22nd, 2012 at 07:36
Love that you got the dress of your dreams made up. Shame it doesn’t fit anymore, but bloody hell well done on shifting that weight!
Bug @ Bugwear
April 22nd, 2012 at 10:30
Thanks Bug,
I guess in the long run being healthier is far more important than the dress.
The dress is kind of a symbol to the journey, just a very beautiful one!
I just thought, there is enough material in that skirt that if the dress can’t be altered maybe I can have another dress made from it?!
Might have to check that out.
Cheers,
Laura
April 22nd, 2012 at 08:56
Beautiful post, Laura! Congrats on getting to a healthier you! That’s a major accomplishment! And the dress looked fabulous on you! That’s a very talented seamstress. 🙂
Olga
April 22nd, 2012 at 10:31
Thanks Olga!
She is pretty amazing!
And she loved the challenge of the dress.
She and a friend of hers even drove the 3 hour round trip to go see the original before starting mine!
Cheers,
Laura
April 22nd, 2012 at 09:52
That is such a beautiful dress! You look fabulous. I love lilac in fashion 🙂 Are you sure you can’t take it in? Maybe if you find the right seamstress?
April 22nd, 2012 at 10:33
I ws thinking of taking it back to the seamstress that made it.
There’s just no rush because I don’t have any more big events on the horizon!
However, I was thinking this morning…
…there is enough material in the skirt that she might be able to use it to make a new dress.
Kind of something new for the new sized me but continuing the story of the dress.
Who knows?! It would be hard to see the old dress gone.
Cheers,
Laura
April 22nd, 2012 at 14:43
I love this post. The red dress is to die for – and talk about timeless! You look lovely in the lavender dress. You really should smile in pictures!
April 22nd, 2012 at 14:48
Thanks Kelly,
She really is an amazing gown, both the original and my version.
I’m working on the smiling in pics. I think I just think too much and I don’t like a fake smile.
The trick is to catch me when I’m not over thinking everything!
Thanks again for your lovely comment and for stopping by.
Cheers,
Laura
April 22nd, 2012 at 18:45
Very nice post. I read it carefully!
April 22nd, 2012 at 19:35
Thanks Konstantina!
Glad you liked it 🙂
You have a very lovely blog.
I think my dress would be at home there!
Cheers,
Laura
April 23rd, 2012 at 00:27
Thank you for your kind words.
April 22nd, 2012 at 19:58
That dress is really beautiful! and the color just so lovely!!! I’m with you! you should try to find a great seamstress to adjust that dress for you. I believe you will look amazing in it again!
April 22nd, 2012 at 21:03
Thanks!
It is such a gorgeous dress and would be a shame not to get to wear it again.
I just need some place to wear it!
Cheers,
Laura
April 22nd, 2012 at 20:36
You looked lovely in teh dress .. but another 50kg sounds a bit much. I admire your will power and think I will remember it when i am in teh gym (trying to lose weighta dn get fit) thanks
April 22nd, 2012 at 21:06
Jensine,
It was 50 kg total…which was a lot but needed.
Thank you for your compliment on the dress.
She is a lovely creation!
These days I make sure I use the stairs at work and get out for a good walk around the lake (6 km) as often as possible.
Every little step helps in the journey to being fit!
Cheers,
Laura
April 22nd, 2012 at 22:03
thanks … I did think that an extra 50 was a bit excessive 🙂 I bet you look lovely and I hope you feel good and are happier in yourself.
April 22nd, 2012 at 23:22
Most definitely do!
Healthier is a very good thing.
Cheers,
Laura
April 23rd, 2012 at 01:24
love the article and the lilac dress goes well with your fair skin. =]
April 23rd, 2012 at 03:00
Thank you Magdalene!
How very kind 🙂
Cheers,
Laura
April 23rd, 2012 at 03:28
That dress looks amazing on you!
April 23rd, 2012 at 03:43
Thank you! You are very kind. 🙂
I truly think this dress would look amazing on anyone!
It’s just that gorgeous. You can’t help but feel gorgeous yourself!
Kind of a magic dress!!!
Cheers,
Laura
April 24th, 2012 at 02:01
Congrats to you for actually have the courage to get the dress made….one of my favorites is from a Fred Astaire and GInger Rogers film with feathers and ruffles….I love the dream.
April 24th, 2012 at 07:26
I would highly recommend having the dream come true and getting it made if you have an occaision to wear it!
Cheers,
Laura
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